Firstly wherever you are I hope you are safe and well. Covid 19 has had a devastating impact on some people’s lives and and we are not yet in control of it. Here’s hoping the next 12 weeks bring more hopeful and positive times.
Going into lockdown straight after Christmas here in Ireland, we thought the time would never pass by, but it did and our restrictions are easing and beautiful spring is in the air. I love the spring, there is a real sense of renewal and of awakening from the winter that can be dark, dreary and filled with somewhat low energy. Even the thoughts of summer is enough to brighten up my day!
Following my previous blog post ‘7 Reasons to Prioritise Your 12 Week Review’, this post is my 12 Week Review, it’s pretty high level but I hope it gives you an insight into how powerful reflection can be and also how reflection makes it so easy to know what improvements are needed in your life going forward.
Have you taken the time to sit with yourself and reflect on the past 12 weeks, I hope so. Reflection is one of the most powerful tools you can use to understand more about yourself, your life, where you want to be and how you are going to get there.
I’m a big fan of reflection and have been reflecting through writing in journals since I was very young and have brought this love of reflection with me throughout my life and career. In my humble opinion I think reflection is one of the most underrated and underutilised tools for success. Like most incredible tools for success, reflection is completely free and available to everyone!
At the beginning of every year, I use the ‘Wheel of Life’ to categorise areas of my life and set annual goals for these areas which filter down into quarterly, monthly, weekly & daily goals. This makes reflecting on the past 12 weeks a relatively easy exercise as I have already reflected on progress daily, weekly & monthly.
Here’s my 12 Week Review on what the past 12 weeks have brought to me in the areas of my ‘Wheel of Life’,
Relationships:
I would normally have plans to visit my family regularly, have nights out with Mike, catch ups with friends, weekends away, holidays etc but lockdown put an end to all that. Instead it was cosy nights in and phone/video calls with loved ones. As I’m sure was the case for everyone, it has been hard not spending time with my family & friends and I am so glad restrictions have lifted slightly. On a positive note, I think the restrictions and the global pandemic in general has given me an even deeper appreciation for how precious time with our loved ones is.
On another positive note, what the pandemic also brought is loads of new friendships from around the world due to everything now being online.
As always, my relationship with myself and understanding more about who I am and why I do what I do underpins the quality of all of my relationships.
I’m looking forward to the next 12 weeks and beyond being more social – in the real world!
Health is Wealth:
Health to me is Mind, Body & Soul which is all about what I feed my mind, what I feed my body and what I feed my soul.
Pick up your phone, choose any social media platform and you will see a stream of people telling you what’s good for your health, how to get fit, how to eat healthily, what to read etc. Most of this is really good advice and people who share their personal stories have got some really good results from what works for them. I am a huge advocate of learning from those who have achieved the results we want to achieve but first we must know what we want for ourselves and why!
In terms of our Mind, Body & Soul we must find out what is best for us as individuals, what keeps us stable and what improves the health of our Mind, Body & Soul. This is different for everyone and so before we go chasing the latest fad, it’s a really good idea to check in and see does it align with what we want for ourselves. What works for someone else may not work for us! This also means not comparing our journey to anyone else’s, especially in terms of what we see on social media which we all know isn’t the full story of people’s lives.
Over the years, I have learned what keeps my Mind, Body & Soul stable, aligned, happy & healthy. The following are critical to my health – precious time with loved ones, healthy eating, exercise, reading, learning, personal growth, journaling, solitude, rest/relaxation & meditation.
These should be my highest priority as they enable me to bring the best version of myself to the world and to those I love. Unfortunately over the past 12 weeks, I didn’t prioritise these and so didn’t reach any of my goals in terms of Mind, Body & Soul! We reflect to learn so we can make better judgements going forward and so over the next 12 weeks Mind, Body & Soul will become my first priority.
Health is Wealth and if we don’t prioritise it now, we will for sure pay for it later!
Personal Development/Growth:
I’m not a typical academic and was never top of the class, I’m more of a curious, creative learner and like learning about many different topics instead of being master at just one. Marie Forleo calls this being ‘multi passionate’ which describes me very well. Learning more about many different topics helps me learn more about myself which is the prerequisite to success of any kind. My favourite way to learn is reading/listening to books, if I could get paid to read all day every day, this would be my dream job! #DreamBig
I also love to learn from podcasts, videos and from people on social media and in the real world. If we are connected in some way, chances are I learn from you!
One of my goals from last year was to up my game in terms of learning about online business which I did through taking my very first online course, Natalie Sisson’s ‘Launch Your Damn Course’ and also by signing up to Natalie’s 10K Club for female entrepreneurs – I love being a part of both of these groups and am learning a huge amount from Natalie and all the other amazing course creators & female entrepreneurs. If you want to learn how to create an online course and also learn how to create an online business I suggest you connect with Natalie (or drop me a DM and I can connect you with Natalie personally).
This year my goal is to increase my learning even further in topics I am passionate about and so I have signed up to the following courses that have been on my ‘to do’ list for ages. Now all I need is time to go through them!
- The Copy Cure by Marie Forleo
- List Builder’s Society by Amy Porterfield
- Beyond Flexibility by Karin Dimitrivova
- Business & Executive Coaching Certificate with Career Decisions/Skillnet
Personal Development/Growth ties in with Health is Wealth in that if you are continuously learning you are continuously nurturing your Mind, Body & Soul. Similar to Health is Wealth, on reflection I didn’t prioritise this area of my life, I signed up to many courses but haven’t even started some of them. This is a priority area for the next 12 weeks and a part of this priority is learning something that doesn’t involve being online – I need to get away from my computer!
Finance:
My philosophy around finance is very simple & my goals revolve around having an abundance mindset, the flow of money in and out of my life and learning more about financial freedom.
I have learned a huge amount about financial freedom and what it means to me from Tony Robbins excellent book ‘Money, Master the Game’. Chapter 3 goes into the details of financial freedom and how you determine what that means to you and how you reach it. This is not rocket science and Tony breaks it down into really simple, easy to understand, easy to implement steps. The rest of this book is heavy and isn’t the type of book I’d normally read but it’s worth buying it for chapter 3 alone.
Over the past 12 weeks I would call my finances stable – my day job earnings were down as we were on reduced hours but I created income from my business which was very exciting and I moved another few steps towards my version of financial freedom!!
As important as money is and we need it to live, where I am in my life right now, time is a more valuable currency to me, I read this quote from Jim Rohn every day to remind me of the importance of valuing my time,
“Time is more valuable than money. You can get more money, but you cannot get more time.”
Something to ponder on!
Work/Purpose:
I divide work and purpose in two as for me they are two very separate entities. Work is what I do for a living, in other words, my day job. I love my day job & the amazing team I work with and I count my blessings for both each and every day. However, my day job is not my purpose. Yes, for sure, my day job and purpose are aligned but they are not the same thing.
Our purpose in life is our reason for being, the reason we are here, the reason we get up in the morning and the reason we strive to be a better version of ourselves every day. When I think of purpose I think of Mark Twain’s beautiful quote ‘The most two important days in your life are the day your born and the day you find out why’.
Finding our WHY is an ongoing journey that is a work in progress for our entire lives. The first step to understanding our purpose is knowing we have one! Have you thought about your purpose in life? Is it your day job? If not, what might it be? My advice for finding your purpose in life is to follow what you love to do and then contribute this gift to the world.
As mentioned above, my purpose is aligned to my day job as I have immense passion for Lean Strategy & Culture however my purpose is more closely aligned to what I do outside of work which over many years has evolved from Travel Photography, Blogging & Writing to more recently Online Course Creation, Writing & Business (Travel Photography is on hold for he moment for obvious reasons!). My purpose is very much a work in progress and I am loving the journey of exploring it all.
The past 12 weeks was incredibly busy and I made huge progress in Online Course Creation, Business & Writing. This was so exciting and brought me immense joy & happiness.
In saying that, there was a cost! I totally underestimated the amount of time it would take to deliver all of the below which meant I made much progress in this area of my life but created little to no progress in other areas. This led to being unbalanced which is what I felt numerous times during the past 12 weeks – the next 12 weeks will be all about bringing balance back into my life and ensuring all areas of my life are prioritised equally!
Here are the milestones I reached over the past 12 weeks that I’m most proud of,
My first self hosted free webinar – I am used to hosting presentations/webinars online through my day job, however hosting my own webinar is another story altogether. From handling all the tech to promotion, communication, content creation, hosting the webinar, sharing the recording and follow up on all the communication (emails & social media) – I loved every minute of this webinar but it did move me way outside of my comfort zone which is great for personal growth but oh so uncomfortable! Following this webinar, I worked with Shannon Chamber to run the webinar again which has brought many exciting opportunities.
My first 6 Week Online Course – Moving even further outside of my comfort zone I created, launched, promoted and delivered my very first 6 Week Online Course. This was so much work, so nerve wracking and so enjoyable in equal amounts. Five beautiful souls (you know who you are) trusted me with guiding them through the steps to create their Personal Strategy and I am so grateful for this. I loved delivering the course content and I equally loved learning from the group through the deep, honest and open discussions we had. We are all unique and we all have a story to tell and a message to share, we can learn so much from each other if we are open to this learning.
My first podcast interviews – I was interviewed on Natalie Sisson’s ‘Untapped’ podcast which was my very first podcast interview. In terms of my comfort zone – this brought nerves to a whole new level! I have been following Natalie online for many years and being part of her LYDC & 10K Club has been amazing but getting to be a guest on her podcast was just brilliant! Recording the podcast was so much fun, however listening back to my own voice was a bit surreal!
I was also interviewed for Sharon Singh Sidhu’s podcast ‘The Financially Free Woman’ podcast. I love Sharon’s philosophy around financial freedom and really align with her teachings in terms of our mindset around money.
All of the above opened up many doors of opportunity that I am currently working on and looking forward to sharing with you.
Social Life:
As we have been I lockdown since Christmas my social life has been very much based at home and not really what I would normally refer to as a social life.
I’m looking forward to our social lives returning to some level of normality over the next 12 weeks and beyond!
Environment:
My goals for this pillar of my Personal Strategy include decorating our home and being more aware of and kinder to our beautiful planet.
After over a year of working from home on our kitchen table, I have finally moved into my new home office. We have turned our spare room downstairs into my home office and I love it, I can finally separate work and home life! I’m looking forward to decorating my new home office and creating a really chilled yet productive space to work.
As part of being more aware of an kinder to our planet, I am reducing the amount of plastic I use and looking at using more eco friendly products. This is a work in progress but it’s really inspiring to see how many Irish companies support eco friendly and sustainable products.
Contribution:
There are so many charities who do incredible work for those less fortunate and I am very grateful that I can afford to support some of these charities. I have a few favourite charities that are personal to me and year on year I try to give more to them. Charities have been hit really hard during the Covid 19 pandemic and so they can do with all of the help and support we can give them.
That’s the past 12 weeks for me – albeit at a very high level.
How has the past 12 weeks been for you?
I’m hoping happy, successful and full of optimism for the next 12 weeks.
I wish you success, health and happiness as you look back at the past 12 weeks and even more success, health and happiness as you look forward to the next 12 weeks and beyond!
Siobhain
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To support you with your 12 Week Review, I have created a free resource, the ‘12 Week Review Workbook’ that will walk you through the 5 steps to carry out your 12 Week Review. You can download it below. I hope you find time for some quiet reflection and find this workbook useful.